Beginner's Guide / 新手指南

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S9394 Beginner's Guide​

Welcome to S9394! Whether you're completely new or just looking for a few tips, here are some basic guidelines to help you stay safe, protect your privacy, and have a better experience.

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Protect Your Identity​

1. Only Share What You're Comfortable Sharing​

Remember that S9394 is a public forum. Anyone can read your posts, including shops, providers, and guests.
Only share information you're comfortable making public.

2. Protect Your Privacy​

Avoid posting details that could identify you, such as:

• The exact time of your appointment
• Specific conversations or unique personal details
• Anything that could allow a shop or provider to figure out who you are

A good tip is to write your report a few days after your visit. This makes it much harder for anyone to match your report to a specific appointment.

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How to Have a Good Experience​

1. Pay Before the Session Starts​

If you're a first-time client, pay before the session begins. This is the standard practice at most shops.
Even as a repeat client, paying first is still recommended. It avoids awkward situations where either party forgets at the end.

2. Don't Bring Too Much Cash​

Bring the exact amount whenever possible, plus a little extra if you're considering optional services.
Avoid carrying large amounts of cash in case you lose it or it gets stolen. Carrying only what you need is generally the safest approach.

3. Respect Boundaries​

If a provider says "no", even politely or indirectly, respect her decision and move on.
Mutual respect helps everyone have a better experience.

4. Never Secretly Record Anyone​

Do not secretly record photos, videos, or audio during your visit.
This can create serious legal and personal issues, and many shops have a zero-tolerance policy.

5. It's Okay to Walk Away​

If the provider is significantly different from her advertisement or profile, it's okay to leave.
However, do so before any service begins, and remain polite and respectful.

6. Keep the Conversation Light​

Most providers are at work and prefer to keep conversations casual.
Avoid asking overly personal questions such as:

• "Do you have a boyfriend?"
• "Why did you start doing this work?"
• "Why don't you find a better job?"

Friendly conversation is great—just respect personal boundaries.

7. Don't Get Emotionally Attached​

Remember this is a job for the providers, they are not here to find a boyfriend or personal partner.
Please don't stalk, harass, or repeatedly contact someone after they've made it clear they're not interested.

8. Don't Cancel at the Last Minute​

Avoid last-minute cancellations whenever possible. If you need to cancel, let the shop know as early as possible.
Last-minute cancellations may result in a ban, as the provider has already reserved that time for you. If it's truly unavoidable, consider paying for the session as a courtesy to avoid being blacklisted.

 

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S9394 新手指南​

欢迎加入 S9394！如果你是第一次接触这个圈子，以下几点建议可以帮助你保护自己，也让整个体验更加顺利、愉快。

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如何保护自己的身份​

1. 只分享你愿意公开的信息​

请记住，S9394 是公开论坛，任何人都可以看到你的帖子，包括店家、女生和其他访客。
因此，只分享你愿意公开的信息，不要透露任何可能暴露自己身份的内容。

2. 不要暴露自己的身份​

写报告时，尽量避免透露一些只有你和女生才知道的细节，例如：

• 见面的准确时间
• 特别的对话内容
• 容易让店家或女生猜到你是谁的细节

一个小技巧：建议隔几天再发报告。
这样店家和女生就比较难根据时间或细节推断出你的身份，更能保护自己的隐私。

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如何拥有更好的体验​

1. 第一次见面建议先付款​

如果你是第一次光顾，建议在服务开始前先付款。
这是大多数店家的惯例。
即使是熟客，先付款也是个好习惯，可以避免结束后双方都忘记付款的尴尬。

2. 不要带太多现金​

建议准备刚好的金额，另外再带一点备用现金，以备临时加项目使用。
尽量不要携带大量现金，以免遗失或被盗。只带需要用到的金额，通常也是最安全的做法。

3. 尊重女生的界线​

如果女生说 「不可以」，即使只是很委婉地表达，也请立即停止，不要继续要求或施压。
互相尊重，才能让双方都有愉快的体验。

4. 不要偷拍或偷录​

请不要偷拍、偷录照片、影片或录音。
这不仅可能涉及法律问题，也有些店家会对此采取非常严厉的处理方式，甚至可能引发肢体冲突。

5. 照片严重不符，可以礼貌离开​

如果女生与广告照片或描述严重不符，你可以选择离开。
不过请务必在任何服务开始之前离开，并保持礼貌，不要发生争执。

6. 不要问太私人的问题​

大多数女生只是来工作，并不希望聊太多私人事情。
尽量避免询问例如：

• 「你有男朋友吗？」
• 「为什么会做这一行？」
• 「你的真实名字是什么？」

轻松聊天当然没问题，但请尊重彼此的隐私。

7. 不要投入太多感情​

请记住，大多数女生是在工作 ，而不是寻找男朋友。
享受当下即可，不要给对方压力，也不要让她觉得你希望发展成交往对象。
更不要骚扰、纠缠或跟踪对方。

8. 不要临时取消预约​

请尽量避免临时取消预约，如需取消，请尽早通知店家。
临时取消有机会被店家列入黑名单，因为女生已经为你预留了时间。如果真的无法避免，建议照常支付费用，以维持良好的信誉。