Newbie guide - how to look good to your SP

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When it comes to pick-up artistry (PUA), the traditional focus is on attracting and engaging women in social settings using psychological and social techniques. However, when dealing with escorts as a client, the dynamic is entirely different—you're engaging in a professional transaction rather than a seduction. That said, if you’re looking for a guide on how to interact smoothly and respectfully with escorts while ensuring a good experience, here’s a quick breakdown:

1. Understanding the Dynamic​

  • Escorts are professionals, not dates. Treat interactions as a business arrangement with mutual respect.
  • The "game" here isn’t about seduction but about being a great client who makes the experience enjoyable for both parties.

2. Finding and Booking an Escort​

  • Use trusted agencies to ensure legitimacy and safety.
  • Read reviews to gauge reliability and service quality.
  • When reaching out, be clear, concise, and respectful. Example:
    • Bad: “Hey bby, u avail?”
    • Good: “Hi [Name], I saw your profile on [site]. Are you available for a [duration] booking on [date] at [location]? Please let me know your rates and any requirements.”

3. First Impressions Matter​

  • Be Clean: Shower, groom yourself, and have fresh breath.
  • Be On Time: Respect her schedule.
  • Dress Well: Even if it’s casual, looking put together improves the experience.

4. Communication & Etiquette​

  • Respect Boundaries: If something isn’t listed in her services, don’t push.
  • Consent Works Both Ways: Just because you’re paying doesn’t mean she has to tolerate disrespect.
  • Small Talk & Vibes: A bit of charm and light conversation can enhance the experience.
  • Don’t Talk About Other Escorts: Treat it like a date in that regard.

5. Handling Payment​

  • Have the Right Amount: Avoid awkward “I need to run to an ATM” situations.
  • Pay Upfront & Discreetly: Hand the envelope or place it somewhere visible.
  • No Haggling: Rates are set. Negotiating is rude.

6. During & After the Meeting​

  • Be Hygienic & Respectful: Fresh breath and proper manners go a long way.
  • Don’t Overstay: If it’s a 1-hour booking, don’t linger unless invited.
  • Leave a Good Impression: If you plan to book again, being polite and easygoing helps.

7. The Follow-Up​

  • If you enjoyed the time, a polite message saying “Thank you, I had a great time” is fine.
  • Don’t spam her with texts or try to turn it into a personal relationship unless there’s clear mutual interest.

8. How to Stand Out as a Great Client​

  • Regular, respectful clients often get better treatment.

  • Being polite, clean, and fun to be around makes repeat bookings more enjoyable for both sides.
 
Great advice and I agree with everything. I just don’t see the harm in talking about other girls ; it really depends on the chemistry you have with them.

I’ve got two regulars, and when I mention one to the other it turns into a bit of a competition. Each time I visit, I end up getting a little more from them as they try to outdo each other.

This might not work for everyone.
 
Agree that if you do everything on the list you’ll usually stand out. That said, not sure you have to Dress Well or Dress to Impress. Don’t be a slob and make sure your clothes are clean.

Be you, if you wear jeans and a t-shirt, wear jeans and a t-shirt; no need to purchase dress slacks and a button down shirt. Just don’t have pit stains and tears in your clothes lol
 
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